Life is always full of uncertainities and unpredictable circumstances that always lead to a defining monent. Its kinda of like fashion week-you never know what to quite expect. It always waits until you are nice and comfortable before it pulls the rug from up under your feet. And its once you have fallen down and bumped your head that you are forced to make the most important decisions that will ultimatley effect your life. Although the good times are great and the good times are what people seek the most its the dark, ugly places that reveal our faith and test our weaknesses so that we can be made stronger. Things are funny that way in order to make you strong you have to weak. In order to be happy you have to be sad. Its almost like one can not exsist without the other. I guess the point is to embrace them both. But who ever really knows!